父母在不知不觉中，很容易把孩子带坏的10件小事
<p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban" style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; text-align: center;"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">父母是孩子成长的引路人，也是孩子人格塑造的指向标。</span><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">正确地爱孩子，是父母拥有植根于内心的修养和推己及人的自觉，努力栽培自己，成为孩子的榜样。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 15px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="color:#6e6e6e;font-family:-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif"> </span></span><span style="font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 16px;">平日里，我们经常能听到父母埋怨孩子身上有各种毛病：</span></p><p><br/></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;visibility: visible;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">懒散、坐不住、不爱学习、做事不认真、一天到晚就知道看手机......</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">却忘了，孩子的问题，大部分都能从父母身上找到答案。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">就像新东方教育集团创始人俞敏洪在一次演讲中说的：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="82" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“孩子之所以出问题，百分之八九十的问题都出在父母身上，你做好了父母，孩子一定会更好。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">我希望大家先把自己打造成合格的父母，尽管我自己也不合格，至少我们应该付出努力。”</span></strong></span></section></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">我们的孩子是最敏锐的观察者，他会用眼睛洞察，用耳朵倾听，用行为模仿。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母的有些言行，看似无伤大雅，却无时无刻不在影响着孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">特别是以下10件小事，家长们一定不要再做了。<br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">爸爸一回家就瘫在沙发上玩手机</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">托尔斯泰曾说：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="44" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“全部的教育，或者千分之九百九十九的教育都归结到榜样上，归结到父母自己的端正和完善上。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">看到孩子“机不离手”，父母就气不打一处来，觉得孩子太不自律。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可实际上，很多家庭中，爸爸比孩子的“手机瘾”更严重：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每天回家后第一件事不是洗手，而是往沙发上一躺，掏出手机就开始玩。<br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">平时吃饭、洗漱、上厕所时，眼睛都紧紧盯着屏幕。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">这样的行为，不仅给孩子做了坏榜样，也破坏了家里学习的氛围，给了孩子一个不学习的借口。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">所以，作为父母，与其给孩子讲大道理，不如给孩子做好榜样。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">少玩一会儿游戏，少刷一会儿视频，用不了多久，你就会惊喜地发现，孩子已经走在了自觉、勤奋的道路上。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">爸爸从不分担家务</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"></span><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有多少家庭的“分工”是这样的：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈洗衣晾衣，爸爸则瘫坐在沙发上纹丝不动；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈洗菜做饭，爸爸却自顾自玩手机，时不时还要催一句“饭怎么还没好？”；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈在扫地拖地，爸爸已然打着鼾睡去......</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一直以来，父母都致力于给孩子最好的教育，却忽略了，生活中的点滴对孩子的影响。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有研究显示：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">一个家庭中，爸爸越爱做家务，孩子的未来也就越成功。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">相反，如果爸爸从来都是两手不沾阳春水，这个家的男孩也会缺少责任感，不懂得体谅他人；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">女孩则会不够自信，惧怕困难，在职业的选择上更为狭窄。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">要知道，生活处处是教育。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一个主动做家务的爸爸，才是孩子幸福生活的缔造者。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">妈妈经常抱怨</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">作家刘继荣分享过一段自己的往事：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有阵子，丈夫在外地工作，她一个人又要上班，又要顾孩子，忙得脚打后脑勺，心里也颇多怨言。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">于是，每天下班一回家，都苦着张脸，洗衣做饭时，也动不动就唉声叹气。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不仅如此，她还经常给朋友打电话抱怨，哭诉自己作为员工的艰难和职场妈妈的疲惫。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">直到有一天，刘继荣无意中听到儿子跟同学的对话。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">儿子用她的口吻说：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="28" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“我没有幸福感，哪里能笑得出来，人生太苦了......”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这一刻，她才意识到：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">自己的抱怨竟然像水蛭一样，吸走了孩子的快乐，只留下满满的负能量。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">心理学家李雪说：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="24" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“抱怨自己的不幸，是摧毁孩子最有效的手段之一。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">孩子是天生的能量接收器。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">妈妈心态乐观，不诉苦、不抱怨，<span style="display: none;line-height: 0px;"></span>孩子在面对艰难坎坷时，才会生出勇敢前行的底气。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">爸爸一言不合就发火</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">英国剑桥大学的研究人员曾对遗传和性格之间的关系进行了一系列的实验。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">结果表明：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">孩子的智力受母亲的影响比较大，性格则主要受父亲的影响。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲性情温和，孩子自然会学着好好说话；父亲脾气暴躁，孩子就学会了用吼叫和拳头沟通。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当班主任的闺蜜跟我说，她班里有个小男孩，经常欺负同学。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有一回，闺蜜请男孩的爸爸来学校谈话。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没想到，这位爸爸见到儿子后，二话不说就是一巴掌：“再敢打同学，看老子回家不揍死你！”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">坏情绪，就这样在亲子之间代代相传。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">《养育男孩》一书中写道：“爸爸教给孩子最重要的一课，就是如何控制好情绪。”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">把脾气化为绕指柔，努力给孩子营造一个温暖、宽松的家庭环境。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">唯有如此，教育才能事半功倍。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">妈妈总是唠叨孩子</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">俗话说，养儿一百岁，长忧九十九。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">成为妈妈后，我们好像总有操不完的心，以至于一见到孩子，就忍不住反复叮嘱、提醒、督促。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">可结果就是，</span><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">妈妈越唠叨，孩子越叛逆。</strong></span></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">节目《老师请回答》中，就有这样一对母子：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="47" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">孩子没考好，妈妈唠叨他；</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">孩子写字慢，妈妈唠叨他；</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">孩子字写得不端正，妈妈继续唠叨他......</span></strong></span></section></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可孩子呢？不光没有变好，反而说谎成瘾，对学习没有丝毫的自觉性。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">老师布置作业，儿子就抄答案糊弄了事，更让妈妈生气的是，有时候答案都抄串行了，儿子还嘴硬说是自己写的。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为此，母子俩天天吵架。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">关于唠叨，心理学上的“超限效应”早就提醒我们，当刺激过多、过强或作用时间过久时，只会激发对方的逆反心理。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而想要孩子自律、高效地成长，父母就要学着多做饭、少说话。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">父母大包大揽</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在家庭教育指导师郑启涓看来：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="46" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“许多父母包办孩子的一切，本意是想给孩子最好的照顾，但却阻止了孩子正常的心理和能力的发展。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不闻不问的父母，当然是不合格的；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可有时候，一对无微不至的父母，对孩子而言，又何尝不是一种伤害呢？</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">6岁时</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">，孩子要上学了，出门前，你帮他穿上鞋，系好鞋带，又把他的书包背在肩上；</span></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">12岁时</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">，孩子想自己洗衣服，你一把夺过去，说“小祖宗哟，你去看电视就好”；</span></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">18岁时</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">，孩子到了大学，随便找了个地方一坐，你则气喘吁吁帮他办手续、铺床单、打扫宿舍......</span></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">到头来，父母的大包大揽不仅摧毁了孩子的自理能力，还杀死了孩子的感恩心。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有些事，父母不教，孩子永远不会懂。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不肯放手的父母，永远也养不出独立、感恩的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">父母经常吼孩子</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一位小学生在作文中这样形容自己的妈妈：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="104" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“头发直立，像一根根金光闪闪的针，感觉随时都要扎在你身上。”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“眼睛最可怕，瞪着你，喷出一条条火蛇，要把人烧死。”</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“最可怕的就是那张嘴了，就像是火山喷发一样，说出的一句句话，像火焰，简直能把人烧死......”</span></strong></span></section></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">当父母大吼大叫时，孩子其实是没办法从中学会任何教训或道理。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">那个小小的人儿，只会被情绪的利刃割得遍体鳞伤。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">久而久之，孩子就会变得越来越小心、怯懦，自卑到骨子里。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有句话说得好：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="21" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“每一个孩子，都是站在父母的舌尖上舞蹈。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">从今天起好好说话，把最好的情绪留给最爱的孩子，孩子才能心有可依，梦有可栖。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">父母爱拿孩子跟别人作比较</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">《青少年蓝皮书》曾做过一次关于“孩子最不喜欢家长说的几句话”的调查。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">令人意外的是，近一半的孩子都做出了相同的选择：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="13" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“你看看别人家的孩子。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在很多父母的眼中，别人家的孩子听话懂事学习好，天天看书从不玩手机，早睡早起还抢着做家务。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">可对孩子来说，“别人家孩子”就仿佛是一个魔咒，只会让自己产生无穷的压力。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每个孩子都有自己的成长规律。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">正所谓，梅虽逊雪三分白，雪却输梅一段香。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">与其用比较让孩子变得自卑、敏感、争强好胜，倒不如欣然接纳他原本的样子，让他站在属于自己的舞台上大放异彩。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">妈妈总是</strong><strong style="outline: 0px;">让孩子等一会儿</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"></span><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">最近，我发现儿子添了一个坏毛病，那就是无论叫他干什么他都磨磨蹭蹭半天才去。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我有点生气，问他为什么不能立马就去。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">儿子却说：“我是跟你学的呀！”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我愣了一下，这才回想起：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">最近，因为家里老人生病了，我一直忙着单位、医院、家里三头跑，每次儿子问我什么，我都让他“等一会儿”，或者“妈妈晚点再跟你说”。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没想到，我随后的一句敷衍竟然让孩子变得拖延、磨蹭。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">好在孩子的不当行为里，也藏着父母修行的密码。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">意识到这一点后，我决定今后要及时回应孩子的需求，多一点耐心，多一些专注。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">用榜样的力量引领孩子，永远是最有效的教育。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">父母不遵守社会公德</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"></span><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">看过一则新闻，给我留下了深刻的印象：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">上海一位女士在电影院看电影时，后排的小男孩一直在踢她的椅座，持续了20分钟。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在此期间，这位女士曾多次出言制止。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">谁知，当女士最后一次提醒男孩时，男孩的爸爸突然朝着这位女士的椅背用力踹了一脚，导致椅背狠狠磕在她的后脑勺上。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">更让人气愤的是：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当女士要求男孩一家道歉时，这家人不仅没有丝毫歉意，男孩的爸爸还要冲过来打她。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">孩子小时候，家庭就是他看世界的一扇窗。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父母扭曲，孩子就扭曲。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">所以，我们要时刻提醒自己，遵守社会公德，约束自己的行为。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这样，才能收获一个有礼貌、有教养的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">主持人白岩松曾说：</span></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="34" data-source-title="" style="outline: 0px;color: var(--weui-FG-1);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" style="outline: 0px;"><section style="margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);">“不是生理上当了父母，就天然是合格的父母，父母是需要终身学习的。”</span></strong></span></section></section></blockquote><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">行为形成习惯，习惯形成性格，性格决定命运。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">很多时候，正是父母日常生活中的一言一行、一举一动，决定了孩子将来的路。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育是一趟崎岖旅程，为了我们的孩子，请所有家长不断淬炼、沉淀，将自己修炼成孩子心中的典范，指引他们向前。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><br/></p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="// id="wcn_editor_css"/> 父母的行为影响着孩子，我们要做好榜样。教育是一辈子的事情，请家长不断进步。 没错，父母的言行举止对孩子的影响是巨大的。作为父母，我们需要不断学习和成长，成为孩子心中的榜样，引导他们走向正确的道路。 是的，父母的言行举止对孩子的成长发挥着至关重要的作用。我们要时刻注意自己的言行，做好榜样，给孩子树立正确的人生导向。 没错！父母的行为对孩子的影响真的很大，要时刻注意自己的言行举止。毕竟，我们的孩子是最敏锐的观察家，他们通过模仿我们来学习。所以，无论孩子的问题出在哪里，我们作为父母都要先反省自己，做个好榜样！? 没错，父母的言行举止对孩子的影响很大。培养良好习惯、塑造良好性格确实是父母的责任。所以，父母们要时刻注意自己的言行，做好榜样，引导孩子朝着正确的方向发展。 没错，父母的言行确实会直接影响孩子。作为父母，我们要时刻注意自己的言行举止，给孩子树立一个良好的榜样，帮助他们成长。 没错，父母对孩子的影响真的很大。他们的行为举止、言语和习惯都会潜移默化地影响孩子的成长。所以，我们要时刻注意自己的言行举止，给孩子树立一个良好的榜样。#努力成为合格父母# ?? 没错！父母的言行举止对孩子的成长影响很大，我们要不断学习和提升自己，做好榜样，引导孩子走向正确的道路。这确实是一段崎岖的教育旅程，但只要我们努力，就能给孩子一个更好的未来。?✨ 没错，父母的行为和言行对孩子的成长起到至关重要的作用。我们作为父母需要不断学习和提升自己，给孩子树立正确的榜样。
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