山西“最荒诞”婚礼现场：新郎母子当众亲密，新娘一个动作，戳破真实关系…
<pre style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;"><p style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;white-space: normal;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: right;visibility: visible;line-height: normal;"><br/></p><section style="margin-top: 0em; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; text-align: center;"></section></pre><p><br/></p><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">这两天，一段婚礼视频被疯传。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">新郎父亲正致辞呢，新郎妈妈突然和新郎亲密互动起来。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">场面非常难以描述。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">把很多人都看懵了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最近，山西的林先生和李女士，举办了一场婚礼。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">很多亲戚朋友都在现场，见证他们的幸福时刻。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">没想到，尴尬的一幕出现了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">新郎爸爸正热情洋溢地致辞呢，新郎妈妈突然动情起来，抱着儿子开始腻乎。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她整个人几乎贴在儿子身上。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">嘟着嘴说着悄悄话，满目深情，一脸娇嗔。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">后来还哭了，握着儿子的手擦眼泪。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">场面一度非常尴尬。 </span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">旁边的新娘妈妈直接看傻了。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一脸不可思议。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">台下的亲戚朋友们更是一个个看傻眼了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">有位大妈被惊得目瞪口呆。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">估计心里已经打了一百个问号，这娘俩弄啥咧？</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而新娘站在台上，更是尴尬。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">刚开始她还假装没看见。 </span><o:page></o:page></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">保持着体面的微笑，看着底下的宾客。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但无奈婆婆和老公的骚操作，没完没了了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">视频中，新娘拉着新郎的手时不时用力握一下。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">意思好像在告诉新郎：</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">“差不多行了，底下那么多人看着呢”。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">无奈，婆婆一直挂在老公身上，不肯撒手。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而老公也竟然没有一点避嫌的意思，十分迎合老妈的举动。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">两个人十指相扣，搂搂抱抱，腻歪个没完。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">新娘的表情越来越微妙。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最后笑容完全消失。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">大家看下面这张图。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">要不是看见新娘还穿着婚纱。 </span></strong><o:page></o:page></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">真分不出到底是谁跟谁结婚。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而这张图，也明晃晃地昭示了这桩婚姻的底色——</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">死死拽着儿子不肯放手的婆婆。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">看似拉着媳妇、实则跟妈妈更近的老公。<br/></span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">十分不满又无可奈何的媳妇。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">这样的婚姻，以后矛盾估计少不了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">视频流出后，评论区的网友们也都觉得过分。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"> “这样的家庭真可怕，我要是新娘父母，直接拉着女儿走人，让他们娘俩热乎去吧。” </span><o:page></o:page></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">“这婆婆不是会演戏，就是占有欲太强，不好搞。”</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; text-align: center;"></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><p><br/></p><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">很多人猜测这娘俩是不是有啥不好的关系。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">这我倒觉得可能性不大。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">以我这么多年见过的众多案例来看，这位新郎妈妈的心理，大概率是这样的：</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她是个情感需求很多的女人。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而老公并不能满足她的爱和依恋。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">所以她把自己的浓烈情感，足斤足两地投放到了儿子身上。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">儿子是她最大的情感寄托，以及最重要的人生支撑。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">从小到大，她都跟儿子十分亲密，难舍难分。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">哪怕儿子已经成年娶媳妇，她还是想把他抱在怀里、捧在手心，让他承接她所有的爱和依恋。</span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而婚礼上，她眼睁睁看着儿子拉着另一个女孩。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">再想到他有了自己的小家庭，要离开自己了，心里自然十分不舍。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">所以情不自禁地抱住儿子，表达她的爱，也验证自己没有失去他。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而这份过于浓烈的爱，显然有失分寸。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong>世间的一切，都应该有它的分寸。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong>包括爱。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一个妈妈爱她的儿子，这没问题。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但如果妈妈爱儿子到了难舍难分、连媳妇都挤不进去的程度，问题就大了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">因为儿子有他的人生。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">他后半生最重要的人，应该是他的伴侣。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">如果妈妈始终霸占儿子，不肯退出，那么儿子的婚姻就很难幸福。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">而一个人婚姻不幸福，他的人生幸福肯定要大打折扣。</span></strong></span></section><section data-brushtype="text" style="margin-bottom: 0em;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;visibility: visible;text-shadow: transparent 0px 0px 0px, rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8) 0px 0px 0px !important;"><p style="text-align: center;"></p></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">我在知乎上看过一个帖子。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">网友@慧慧 说她离婚了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">原因只有一个，就是婆婆。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她说五年的婚姻里，婆婆一直“阴魂不散”，明里暗里地跟她抢老公。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最好她终于受不了，把老公还给了婆婆。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧用几千字写了她的故事，我给大家讲讲精华，还是挺典型的——</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">因为住得很近，慧慧婆婆每天不请自来，给儿子擦后背、洗内裤。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一边洗，还一边踩儿媳妇，顺带着表白：</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">“结了婚，这些事也得妈给你干，你就是离不开妈”。</span></strong></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一家人一起吃饭、看电视，婆婆一定要坐儿子旁边，把慧慧挤到一边去。<br/></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">出门的时候，婆婆总是要挽着儿子的手，慧慧只能在后面跟着。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧就说“我每次看到他们母子俩在前面调笑，心里真像吃了苍蝇一样难受”。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她无数次跟老公抗争，但是几乎没有效果。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">老公翻来覆去就那几句话</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">“那不是我妈吗”“我也不能娶了媳妇忘了娘”。</span></strong></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">后来婆婆每次不请自来，慧慧心里都堵一个大疙瘩。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">心里憋闷，脸色自然就不好看。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">婆婆就跟她儿子抱屈，时不时还大哭一场。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她儿子回头就找慧慧吵架，骂她不孝顺。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">夫妻俩隔三差五就冷战。</span></strong></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一冷战男人就回家找tm。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">tm还趁机挑拨离间，“媳妇再好也永远不如妈”。</span></strong></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">然后去年冬天疫情的时候，慧慧阳了，烧到39度。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她老公本来还在家里想照顾一下。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是给tm打了个电话，婆婆一听慧慧发烧，立刻就说她自己可能也阳了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">然后慧慧老公一听，挂了电话就回家看tm了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧高烧不退，但是身边一个人也没有，自己艰难地熬了一夜。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">到第二天给她老公打电话一问，公婆都啥事儿没有，根本不需要照顾。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧特别生气，旧怨新仇涌上心头，她直接跑到婆婆家，想理论理论。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">结果进门一看，人家一家三口做了一大桌子菜，喝着酒，聊着天，那叫一个热火朝天。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">婆婆见她第一句话，竟然说“哎你怎么来了，你阳了没好，还传染人呢”。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧过去就把桌子掀了，指着她老公说，你在这儿吃香的喝辣的，你想过你还有个老婆呢吧？你知道我烧到39度多难受吧？</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她老公还没说话，婆婆接茬了，说</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong>“你阳了他就不能在家了，你传给他，他不也难受吗？”</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧气得直接跟婆婆对骂。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而老公毫无悬念地站在了tm那边，一家三口一起骂慧慧。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">一场混战。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">第二天慧慧就弄好了离婚协议。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她老公本来还不想离，各种说好话。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是慧慧已经彻底寒心，说</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">“你就不适合结婚，谁嫁给你，都一辈子是外人，你就跟你妈过吧”。</span></strong></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最后坚定地离了。</span></section><section data-brushtype="text" style="margin-bottom: 0em;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;visibility: visible;text-shadow: transparent 0px 0px 0px, rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8) 0px 0px 0px !important;"><p style="text-align: center;"></p></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">慧慧的故事，可能有点极端。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是这种“被婆婆牵制”的痛苦，可能很多媳妇都深有体会。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而这甚至成了一个恶性循环。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">太多女人，因为跟丈夫不够亲密，而把深情都投到了儿子身上。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">然后用各种手法把儿子跟自己绑在一起——</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">事无巨细地照顾儿子，要求他事无巨细地向妈妈汇报。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">然后长年累月地灌输“你妈这辈子不容易”“妈是天底下最爱你的人”“你可不能娶了媳妇忘了娘”……<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最后，儿子和妈妈形成了病态共生关系。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">紧密、病态地纠缠在一起，即使痛苦也无法分开。</span></strong></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">而这样的男孩结了婚以后，问题就会很大。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">因为一张床上睡不下三个人。</span></strong></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">男人结了婚，老婆就应该是他最紧密的人了。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是婆婆的不退出，甚至故意争宠。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">让儿子无法跟媳妇建立真正亲密的夫妻关系。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">最后婆媳互相针对，儿子左右为难，三方都会很痛苦。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">更可怕的是，媳妇可能会因为无法赢得老公的心，就又把情感都倾注到了儿子身上。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">然后悲剧就一代一代不断重演。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><p><br/></p><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">那怎么改变这样糟糕的局面呢？</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">还是得从婆婆做起。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">我记得郭晶晶的婆婆朱玲玲讲过一件事。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">说霍启刚和郭晶晶谈恋爱的时候，有一次他们三个一起逛街。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">她拉着儿子霍启刚，霍启刚又要挽着郭晶晶。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">三个人并排走路，谁都走不好。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">那一刻她就明白，自己该放手了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">应该把儿子交给他的爱人了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">这是一个明智的婆婆。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">自己养大的儿子，谁不爱？</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是当他走到了人生新阶段，有了自己的亲密爱人。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">那你再不舍，也得放手。</span></strong></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">这是天下婆婆，都应该有的觉悟。</span></strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">可能有点残酷，但这就是人生啊。</span></strong></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">也不要拿“娶了媳妇忘了娘”这种话，去道德绑架孩子。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">因为一个男人结了婚，把心思更多地用在自己的小家庭上，用在老婆孩子身上，这没有错。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">只要他还惦记着父母，给父母合理的照顾，就没毛病。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong>一个健康的家庭中，夫妻关系就是应该要大于母子关系。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong>因为夫妻关系，才是一个家庭最核心的根本。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;"><strong>其他关系，都是在这个基础上衍生的。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">只有夫妻结成稳定而紧密的同盟，整个家庭才健康稳固，和谐有力。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">所以作为父母，如果你的孩子结婚了，你当然还可以爱他/她。<br/></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(89, 89, 89);font-size: 15px;">但是一定要明白，应该把“最爱”这个称号，交给他/她的爱人了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">懂得适时适度的退出，才能为整个家庭，换来更长久美好的关系。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.75em;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: rgb(172, 29, 16);"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;">也才能赢得孩子们真正的爱和尊重。</span></strong></span></section><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="// id="wcn_editor_css"/> 夫妻关系第一，出父子关系喜欢划清界限，不意味着缺乏爱
关键在于平衡，家庭才和谐 同意，夫妻关系是家庭的核心。父母应该适时退居二线，让子女的配偶在家庭中扮演重要角色。这样才能建立稳定、和谐、有力的家庭关系，获得子女的真爱和尊重。试想，如果父母过分插手，可能会破坏夫妻之间的信任和亲密关系，也让孩子们陷入困惑和纠结中。所以，父母需要理解自己的位置，适度退出，给新家庭足够的空间和支持。? 同意，夫妻关系是家庭的核心，父母要适时退居二线，给予夫妻空间。 同意，夫妻关系是家庭的核心。父母要学会适时退出，给予孩子们的爱人最大的尊重和关爱。这样才能建立一个健康和谐的家庭。? 同意，夫妻关系是家庭的核心。父母应该适时退位，让孩子和配偶建立稳固的关系。这样才能让整个家庭更加和谐和稳定。 有道理，夫妻关系是家庭的核心。父母也要适时退出，让孩子和伴侣建立稳固的关系。? 夫妻关系最重要，父母应学会适时退出。 那是个难题… 孩子结婚后，父母的角色转变很重要。不能太过干涉，要给他们自由发展的空间，但也不能完全撇下。找到平衡点是关键，这样才能维持和谐和稳定。? 同意，夫妻关系确实是家庭的核心。父母可以爱孩子，但也要适时退居幕后。
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