越狱来上网 发表于 2023-12-25 09:51:42

董宇辉：不要太在意孩子

<p><span class="wx_text_underline" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 2px; outline: 0px; cursor: pointer; background: url(data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg width=8 height=2 viewBox=0 0 8 2 fill=none xmlns= d=M3.25 1.5H0.75C0.335786 1.5 0 1.16421 0 0.75C0 0.335786 0.335786 0 0.75 0H3.25C3.66421 0 4 0.335786 4 0.75C4 1.16421 3.66421 1.5 3.25 1.5Z fill=%2307C160 fill-opacity=0.5/%3E%3C/svg%3E%0A) 0px 100% / auto 2px repeat-x rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap;">我接触过很多家长，总是忍不住指导孩子生活中的每一件事情，大事小事都要干预各位家长，我们应该更多的观察倾听孩子，在关键时候给一点点反馈就行了，而不是全程指导他的每一步怎么走。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">条条大路通罗马为什么非要按你的路来。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">成长是一个学习试错的过程，你避免他犯错的时候，你就避免了他的成长，他永远也长不大。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">父母们如果不能给予孩子们自己的空间那对孩子的健康成长就是一种伤害。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">孩子的健康成长和性格养成，都是需要父母良好的去引导。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">父母选择适当放手，让孩子自己做人生的决定。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">这可以让孩子学会独立，发现自己想做的事，发掘自我潜力。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">让孩子的视线扩展向四周，而不是困在父母身边。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我们要做的就是在他遇到困难的时候，做他坚实的后盾。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span class="wx_text_underline" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 2px; outline: 0px; cursor: pointer; background: url(data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg width=8 height=2 viewBox=0 0 8 2 fill=none xmlns= d=M3.25 1.5H0.75C0.335786 1.5 0 1.16421 0 0.75C0 0.335786 0.335786 0 0.75 0H3.25C3.66421 0 4 0.335786 4 0.75C4 1.16421 3.66421 1.5 3.25 1.5Z fill=%2307C160 fill-opacity=0.5/%3E%3C/svg%3E%0A) 0px 100% / auto 2px repeat-x rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap;">放手让他去选择自己的兴趣和人生。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">孩子是父母生活折射出来的影子，生长在哪片天地之下，就会长成什么样的树长期在父母的控制之下，他被固定在这个模板之中，就会变成这个模式下的产物。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">养成过分依赖父母的性格，日后难成大事过度在意只会伤害到孩子，而非真的爱孩子的表现。</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">与其盲目给予爱给孩子，不如适当给孩子选择的权利，将时间放在自己身上。</span></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="// id="wcn_editor_css"/>

刘峰 发表于 2023-12-25 10:22:51

同意！孩子们需要独立成长，而不是被过度控制。给他们选择的权利，让他们发现自己的兴趣和潜力，这样才能真正成为自己想要成为的人。父母应该在他们需要时成为坚实的后盾，而不是限制他们的发展。让孩子们的视线向四周扩展，不要让他们困在一个模式中。

烟雨l落落 发表于 2023-12-25 18:07:46

培训教练: 放手成长! ?

大神他爹 发表于 2023-12-25 20:04:59

育儿专家：引导，别控制

给风唱歌的狼 发表于 2023-12-26 04:49:49

“没什么大不了。”

郑岱 发表于 2023-12-26 04:58:04

欢迎光临！

我是圣骑士 发表于 2023-12-26 05:21:02

怎么了？

含笑半步颠 发表于 2023-12-26 05:45:53

“别瞎操心。”

幕，红尘。 发表于 2023-12-26 08:38:25

你猜对了吗？

番茄寿司 发表于 2023-12-26 09:16:06

理财规划师
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