普通家庭，真的不要给孩子投资太多
<p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban" style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(242, 244, 245); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p data-mpa-powered-by="yiban" style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible;"><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(242, 244, 245); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"> 普通家庭，切忌过度富养、拔苗助长。</span><span style="color: rgb(110, 110, 110); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(242, 244, 245); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">放平心态，偶尔向外看，时常向内看，在能力范围内做到最好，就能找到适合孩子、适合家庭的养育之道。</span></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">看见女儿歇斯底里朝我吼叫的样子，我真恨不得抽自己一耳光。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">女儿生日这天，我特意买了她念叨了很久的苹果手机做礼物。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">不曾想，她竟因为买的不是最新款而大发脾气：“你要买不起就别买，整个老款的打发谁啊！”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我耐着性子哄她，手机性能都差不多，买老款可以省下不少钱，到时候攒着给她买电脑。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">她却半句都听不进去，大声嚷嚷道：“我不管，谁叫你这么没用，挣的钱都不够用！”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">那一刻，我的心拔凉拔凉的。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当妈后，我秉持着“再苦不能苦孩子”的教育理念，在女儿身上没少投资。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我自己节衣缩食，但掏钱送女儿见世面、买名牌连眼都不眨；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">全家月入不足三万，但我还是咬牙把她送进最好的私立学校，给她最好的教育。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我曾坚定地认为，给女儿最好的是理所应当的。 </span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">但女儿此刻的一声声嘶吼，一句句指责，却让我陷入了沉思：我一直以来的富养，是不是错了？</span></p><p></p><section class="channels_iframe_wrp"><mp-common-videosnap class="js_uneditable custom_select_card channels_iframe channels_live_iframe videosnap_live_iframe" data-type="live" data-headimgurl=" data-username="v2_060000231003b20faec8cae08019c5d0ca07ec32b077fc1f1290fc8420f096956311a4b2904c@finder" data-nickname="男孩派" data-desc="将在01月10日 10:00 直播" data-livewording="预约" data-intro="【江美丽读绘本】来了！绘本这样读，孩子更爱听" data-status="0" data-noticeid="finderlivenotice-v2_060000231003b20faec8cae08019c5d0ca07ec32b077fc1f1290fc8420f096956311a4b2904c@finder-1704354245319205-1272891850" data-isdisabled="0" data-errortips=""></mp-common-videosnap><br/></section><p></p><p style="margin: 8px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">其实，我早就应该发现，一味地用钱给孩子铺路，只会滋长孩子的虚荣心，让孩子陷入盲目的攀比。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">女儿现在不过14岁，可她的拜金意识已经逐渐泛化到各个方面。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">从衣食住行到吃喝玩乐，她言必谈品牌和价格，只要稍微便宜的东西就一概排斥。 </span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">平日里，她花钱也总是大手大脚，1200元一双的鞋子，说买就买。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">花钱就像泼水一般，和同学出去玩，一下午就花掉三五百。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我曾劝她要省着点花钱，她却反过来问我，不是你跟我说，要吃好用好吗？</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">现在看来，这都怪我错误的教育，让她在所谓的“富养”中迷失了自我，让她误认为自己是“富二代”。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">想起教育家三川玲的告诫：</span><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">不要把孩子塑造成家里的另外一个阶层。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">穷家富养，只会养出不知生活疾苦，一味索取的孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">作家刘小念分享过一个真实故事。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有一对工薪阶层的父母，虽然收入不高，但坚持照着富二代的标准去配置孩子的生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">结果却只养大了孩子的贪婪和欲望。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">虽然吃穿用度没得挑，孩子还是经常质问他们为什么不买个大房子让他养狗。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有一次，就因为找的课后班不是一对一教学，孩子说什么都不肯去上。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲苦口婆心和他算账，他竟怒目圆瞪，朝父亲吼道：“谁叫你是个窝囊废，生得起，养不起！”<br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">后来在得知父母一直在勒紧裤腰给他最优渥的生活时，他第一反应，也不是感动，感恩，而是愤怒。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">愤怒父母的无能，愤怒父母让他丢了脸，因为在他看来，父母年收入不足百万，就是原罪。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(5, 57, 81);outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">砒霜可成药，糖多能害人。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">钱总有花完的一天，但养大的物质欲望，却回不去。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">穷家富养，只会让孩子的欲望和贪婪，坠落为永远填不满的深渊。</span></p><p></p><section style="margin-top: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 12px;"></span></strong></section><p></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">非洲草原上有一种红蜘蛛，刚出生就要吃东西，母蜘蛛就将食物团成团，供它们吃。 </span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可是，这种蜘蛛胃口很大，吃完还是饿。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">这时，母蜘蛛就会由着小蜘蛛爬在自己身上，啃食自己，直至被吸成一具空壳。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">穷家富养，本质也是一样的。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一味地用物质喂养孩子，当物质被啃噬干净的时候，孩子就会啃噬父母。 <br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">网上就有位父亲，从小对女儿百般疼爱，全家省吃俭用，却竭尽一切给女儿最好的物质条件。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为了供女儿出国留学，掏空家里全部积蓄；</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为了让女儿过得舒心，一万三的工资给女儿一万一，自己一日三餐就馒头配咸菜。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可女儿还是经常透支信用卡，父亲不过劝她节约一点，她竟公然网暴疼了她二十几年的父亲，怒斥道：“老家伙，养不起本仙女当年你就别生啊。”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">何其悲哀！</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">父亲含辛茹苦，她熟视无睹；父亲掏心掏肺，她狼心狗肺。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 2em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">还有山东潍坊这位老奶奶。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">她平日里连肉都舍不得买，儿子找她要钱买游戏装备她却说给就给。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">二十多年来，她惯着孩子，要什么，就给什么。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">结果“富养”出来的儿子，四十多岁了，仍一事无成。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每天如同寄生虫一样，花着母亲仅3000元的退休金，在家不是吃就是睡，要么就是玩游戏。<br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">可怜老奶奶到70多岁的高龄，还要为了给儿子找份工作四处奔波劳累。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没有哪个孩子天生懂得体恤父母。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">父母把自己当提款机，孩子就是碎钞机</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">，只会一辈子不成器，一辈子趴在父母身上敲骨吸髓。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">再看看在机场被儿子连捅9刀的母亲。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">为了满足儿子汪佳晶的高消费，她不仅节衣缩食，耗尽家中积蓄，更是不惜贷款也要力保儿子能有最体面的生活。 </span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">儿子留日5年，她债台高筑，再也拿不出钱。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">最后得到的却不是儿子的体谅，而是持刀相向。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">教育家马卡连柯说：“一切都给孩子，牺牲一切，甚至牺牲自己的幸福，这是父母给孩子最可怕的礼物。”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">穷家富养，不仅喂大了孩子的欲望，也赔上了孩子的品行。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他们不会理解父母的辛劳，也不在乎。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他们一边向父母无限索取，一边又对父母毫无感激。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">一旦父母再无力满足，他们就会心生怨恨，对父母恶意相向。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">南京师范大学教授郦波曾说：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“真正的教育是，再富也要苦孩子。你见哪一个人才不经历人生坎坷？孩子需要有正常的磨砺，而不是只给他各种卓越的条件。”</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">对普通家庭而言，最好的教育，应该是家里什么条件，就怎么养孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">尽早让孩子知道家庭条件有限的事实，吃一点生活的苦，感受一下父母的不易，孩子才能在生活的锤炼中学会奋斗，敢于担当。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">就像那个被众多网友赞扬的11岁男孩。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">因为深知爸爸挣钱辛苦，一到暑假，他就跑到店里帮爸爸看摊位。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每天从早上7点，一直干到晚上12点，爸爸在里屋烙饼，他则顶着烈日看管三个摊位。<br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">从切饼、上称到包装，整个过程一气呵成，娴熟得像一个大人。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有人问他累吗？</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他说：再累也没有爸爸累，没有苦就没有甜。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">有人夸他是个好孩子。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">他则坦诚道，哪有什么好孩子，都是锻炼出来的，我干这个，是因为能帮爸爸分担一下。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">谈及未来的想法，小男孩更是说：想好好学习，希望能走出一条路，让爸爸过上好生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="color: rgb(5, 57, 81);outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">宠儿多不幸，娇儿难成才。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">躺在蜜罐里的孩子，永远不会懂得拼搏和进取的滋味。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">泡在社会这片海，品尝酸甜苦辣，孩子才会体恤父母的辛苦，懂得努力的意义。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“北大灌饼父亲”彭勇，就经常对儿子彭翔宇说，我们只是普通家庭，无法去跟那些富裕家庭比，但我们的命运掌握在自己手里，要得到什么，得靠自己的双手努力去挣。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">彭翔宇铭记父亲的教诲，从小就特别懂事能干。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">每天一有空闲，他就会守在父母的小摊上帮忙，灌饼、扫地、洗灶台、摆食材，样样都干。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">也因为深知父母的艰辛和生活的艰难，彭翔宇在学习上总是异常刻苦。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">最终靠着极度的自律，和不懈的努力，叩开了北大的校门。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">很认同一句话：</span><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(5, 57, 81);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">好的教育是灵魂的建设，不是金钱的堆砌。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">物质的富养，不如赋予孩子优秀的品质，培养孩子独立行走世间的能力。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">惟其如此，孩子才能学会用自己的双手，创造出自己的富足人生。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 2em;"></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">认识到自己错误的教育后，我思考了很久：今后，我应该给女儿什么样的物质和教育？</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我想，最重要的是——让女儿在真实的生活中成长。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我不再为她屏蔽生活的本来面目，也不再透支家庭，给她超出自己能力范围内的生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当然，我会好好爱她，给她精神上的富足，培养她正确的三观，教她独立的能力。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">唯有这些，能伴随她一生，成为她披荆斩棘的武器，给予她行走于世的底气。</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">就像主持人梁继璋给孩子的一封信中的那句话：</span></p><p style="margin: 24px 8px 0px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">“当你长大之后，我供养你的责任已经完结，以后你要坐巴士还是奔驰，吃鱼翅还是粉丝，都要自己负责。”</span></p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="// id="wcn_editor_css"/> 让孩子学会独立，奔驰还是巴士，都要自己负责。 理财顾问 家庭教育学者 家庭教育是关键，女儿需要独立。 别纵容奢侈，注重内心成长。 理所应当的，孩子并非只在物质上成长。 嘿，我来给你几句有料的建议。首先，女儿那种不懂得珍惜的态度，有时候确实需要进行一些教育引导。就像你说的，给她适当的物质上的奖励，但更应该注重培养她的内在品质和独立能力。毕竟，要真正面对生活的挑战，还是得靠自己。其次，别太过担心孩子的反应。每个孩子的成长历程各不相同，只要你始终关注她的内心世界，给予她真诚的关爱和正确的引导，最终都会找到适合她的培养方式。再者，物质条件和教育水平并不能从根本上决定一个人的人生成就，更重要的是她自身的价值观和努力。
最后，一句精彩的话与你分享：“我供养你的责任已经完结，以后你要做什么，都要自己担当。”愿你在陪伴女儿的同时，也能帮助她成长为独立自主的个体。对吧？😊 我认为，对于孩子来说，最重要的并不是物质上的投入，而是父母对他们的爱和正确的引导。在现代社会，物欲横流，孩子很容易被各种外部因素所影响，造成对金钱和物质的过度迷恋。您的改变非常明智，让女儿在真实的生活中成长，培养她正确的三观和独立能力，这样的教育才是真正有益于孩子的成长。希望您和女儿之间的关系可以变得更加和谐，她能够明白您做的一切都是出于对她的爱和关心。加油！💪
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