这件事破坏孩子性灵，太损子女福报，千万不要再做了
<h1 style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 25.6px;font-family: 微软雅黑;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17.1429px;line-height: 27.4286px;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 2px;margin-bottom: 2px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin: -1px 5px;padding: 4px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(235, 230, 217);background-color: rgb(254, 251, 245);"><section style="padding: 1em;max-width: 100%;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(235, 230, 217);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section label="powered by wxb-style" style="max-width: 100%;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-id="24" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; text-align: center;"></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);visibility: visible;">无论生活给了你怎样的磨砺，在孩子面前，请控制你的脾气。你越从容，孩子越灵秀，家庭越幸福，人生才更顺遂。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">01 </strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">对孩子发火，破坏孩子灵性</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);visibility: visible;">“真不知道该怎样教育孩子...…”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);visibility: visible;">“怎么说，他们都不听……” </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><br style="outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;visibility: visible;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);visibility: visible;">“本想跟孩子快乐相处，一不留神话就说重了……”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">父母亲注意不要对小孩发脾气，生气上火。<strong style="outline: 0px;">不要用脾气管孩子</strong>，你一用脾气管孩子，<strong style="outline: 0px;">你的气火就跑到孩子的头上，坏了孩子的性灵。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">在孩子的头上加了一个紧箍咒，生一次气上一回火，就加一回紧箍咒。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">日积月累，紧箍咒越来越多，虚的紧箍咒就变成了孩子实实在在的头痛病，做父母的年龄大了就会下肢腿脚痛，既害了孩子又害了自己。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">孩子性灵被牢牢的禁锢了损坏了，智慧无所从来，越想让他学习好，他的学习会越来越不好，与家长的期望越来越背道而驰。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">这都是用脾气管孩子的结果。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">君子反求诸己，要改正自己，改自己的性格，你变孩子就变。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">“儿孙不用管，全凭德行感”，</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">这是有深刻道理的，要改变我们生气发火的脾气秉性。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 16px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">要把孩子的性往好的方面引导，要经常找孩子的优点肯定孩子闪光的地方，多鼓励孩子</strong>。<strong style="outline: 0px;">（鼓励赞美孩子做人做事的好的品格）</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">在表扬的同时，劝化引导孩子改正不良的习惯嗜好，帮助孩子打开性灵的宝藏。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">烦恼脾气是一种阴性病毒，害人又害己</strong>。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">特别是亲人之间，互相非常珍惜对方、在乎对方，用心较重。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">越是这样烦恼脾气对对方的伤害越重。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">亲人之间生活在一起，受彼此烦恼脾气的伤害几率非常高，病就是这样慢慢累积，从虚变实，由轻变重。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">怨伤脾；恨伤心；恼伤肺；怒伤肝；烦伤肾。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">大家应该警醒，不要看轻日常的小小烦恼脾气。千里之堤，溃于蚁穴。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">人到中年一般处于亚健康状态大部分原因主要是因为烦恼不健康的性情所致。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">而父母粗暴，子女就也会冲父母发脾气，这下子女因为抵触顶撞亲长，自己的各种福也都没有了。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 16px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);"> </span></strong></span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);">02 </span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);">冲孩子发脾气会让孩子失掉灵性</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子喜欢谴责别人，是因为平时我们对他批评过多；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子凡事喜欢抱怨，是因为我们总是挑剔他；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子喜欢对抗，是因为我们对他有敌意和强制。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不够善良，是因为我们是一个缺少同情心的人；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子胆小、羞怯，是因为他经常被嘲弄、辱骂；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不跟我们说心里话，是因为我们捉孩子的话儿把，翻老账。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不辨是非，是因为我们**，没有给孩子自主和思考的机会；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子很自卑，是因为我们对孩子总是失望，不能耐心鼓励；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子嫉妒、敏感、怕受伤，是因为我们的家庭没有宽容和温暖。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不喜欢自己，是因为我们对他缺少接纳、认可和尊重；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不上进，不努力，是因为我们对他要求过高他做不到；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子很自私，是因为我们对他太溺爱，要什么给什么。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子不懂父母的苦心，是因为我们没有教会他理解别人；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子退缩、逃避，是因为遭到了我们的轻视和打击；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">如果孩子懒惰和依赖，是因为我们替孩子做的事和决定太多了</span><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);"> 03 </span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;color: rgb(255, 104, 39);letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">如果你忍不住对孩子发火，请这样做吧</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">首先，接受生气的事实</strong>，不必内疚，<strong style="outline: 0px;">要让孩子知道你对他此时此刻的情绪反应是什么</strong>。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">其次，客观地表达出自己的感觉，你对孩子的担心</strong>。比如说：</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">我生气是因为我担心你。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">而不是说：</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">你这个孩子怎么总是这么让人头疼！</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">不要翻旧账、给孩子贴标签，或是口无遮拦地指责</strong>。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><strong style="outline: 0px;">最后，可以直接告诉孩子，我们的期待是什么，孩子如何做会更好</strong>。这样可以明确给孩子指出一条可以避免“闯祸”，或者能够解决问题的方法。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 16px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"></p><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 16px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">若上述3步你发火当下没有做到，请在意识到不妥、感到内疚的当下（最好在同一天内），去跟孩子进行情感交流，包括告知孩子你发火的原因（你爱他，只是不喜欢他的错误行为）。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">为你的情绪失控说对不起（只是为情绪失控说对不起，不能为此想要弥补孩子，而放弃之前自己在坚持的原则，否则功亏一篑），</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">最后跟孩子再次讨论引起你发火的事情本身，包括你对孩子的期待，并就某件事定个规则，做个约定等。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">跟孩子说对不起不丢人，它是愈合孩子内心伤口的良药。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">当然，说对不起之后，等孩子情绪稳定了，还要记得冷静客观地和孩子一起分析问题，让他知道下一次应该怎么做。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">冲孩子发火的次数不能过于频繁，没完没了。</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">请至少只在孩子犯了比较严重的错误时责骂，而不是永远唠叨、对孩子表现出不耐烦。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">能够控制情绪是人成熟的标志，是人一生学习的课题。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><br style="outline: 0px;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(62, 65, 85);">父母在帮助孩子控制情绪的过程中，自己也同样成长了，这是多好的机会！所以，不要内疚，要成长！</span></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-size: 17.14px;line-height: normal;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></h1><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="// id="wcn_editor_css"/> 哈，别跟我说这些道理，我要是发火了，就是孩子该好好检讨自己的时候！谁让他们做错事惹火上身了？不过，确实，我也知道发火不是解决问题的好办法，得跟孩子好好沟通一下，让他们明白我的期待和规矩。我可不想成天唠叨，那样累死人。要控制情绪，也是我得学会的功课，毕竟父母也在成长路上不断进步嘛！ 哈哈，听你说的好像我是一个有了许多孩子，一直在学着成熟的父母样板。是不是以为我就是个凶狠的老爸？倒是挺有孩子的耐心，但该时候火爆也不是坏事。别担心，成长路上有时候需要激情，等到孩子情绪稳定了，再好好交流一番也挺好的。毕竟，严厉和关怀并不矛盾，嘛！😆 嘿，听我说，搞不好你神经过敏了。发火还联系上发火原因？这才叫天方夜谭呢。虽然有点失控，但我可不会心软改变原则，不然就是得不偿失。给孩子点惊喜，就先别唠叨了，冲动发泄可不解决问题。控制情绪得找准方法，嘛，这样一来，孩子也懂事多了，我也成熟多了，何乐而不为呢！ 别墅政策的理念固然带给父母不同的思考，管教孩子也要有方式方法嘛，不宜频频动怒，还是稳重为好。总体观结合婴儿小怡合平日生活实际，制定相应家规，断不可恒心不震，一意孤行。 别跟我忽悠这些假大空的道理，发火就放个屁的那点破事，别在这装孙子了！ 呵呵，有点激动呀！别担心，既然意识到不对劲了，就和孩子好好沟通解释一番，教育要理智而有效嘛。不要忘了学习控制情绪，成长是一辈子的事情。生活中总会出现挑战，保持冷静并与孩子平等交流是关键。加油！👍 哦，有人在发表严肃看法啦！嘿，要是我发火了发现不对劲，不妨直接跟孩子聊一聊，解释一下我愤怒的原因，甚至订立一些规矩。这样反而能够解决问题，何必苦恼呢？带孩子成长，也是自己成长的好机会嘛！😉👍 别墨迹了，谁家娃没闯祸过？让他们长点记性总没错，谁又是总走着瞧呢？ 放心，我知道发火伤害到孩子的重要性，虽然我没有立即意识到不妥，但我会跟孩子进行情感交流，重新规划引起发火的事情，并一起定规矩。控制情绪确实是成人的标志，我会努力做得更好，谢谢你的建议！
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