俗语：“酒不顾人，色不顾身，财不顾亲”，究竟是啥道理？
<p style="letter-spacing: 0.578px; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); text-align: center;"><br/></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; text-align: center;"></p><p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></p><p></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="body" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;visibility: visible;"><section data-mpa-template="t" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-paragraph-type="ignored" style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;"><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;">人情似纸张张薄，</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;">世事如棋局局新。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;">贫居闹市无人问，</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 122, 170);visibility: visible;">富在深山有远亲。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;">人情，是日常生活的主色调，它包罗万物，既浅显又深邃。想要读懂它，不太容易。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);visibility: visible;">幸好，化繁为简是古人的绝活。古人曾说：酒不顾人、色不顾身、财不顾亲。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);visibility: visible;">以酒、色、财入墨，且看古人如何描绘人间景象，说透人情冷暖。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;">-01-</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);visibility: visible;"><strong style="visibility: visible;">酒不顾人</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><br style="visibility: visible;"/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;visibility: visible;">“顾”可以理解为看顾、顾及，那么这句话的意思便是，<strong style="visibility: visible;">酒不会顾及人的感受，喝多喝少都是自己的事。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">自古以来，人们便知喝酒容易误事，甚至酿出祸端。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>那么，为什么还会有很多人争先恐后的饮酒呢？</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">饮酒，门道很多，渊源颇长。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">在漫长的历史长河中，饮酒形成了其独有的文化。自三千年前黄酒开始量产，此后一发不可收拾，各种名酒横空出世。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>在随后的历史文明进程中，酒渗透到了中国文学艺术创作、文化、娱乐、烹饪、养生保健等各个方面。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">当然，最多见的还是在酒桌上的觥筹交错。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">老话说：“茶满欺人，酒满敬人”，古代的酒度数很低，酒量好的人可以千杯不倒，但这并不意味着饮酒过量对身体没有坏处。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>身处在酒桌上的豪客们，自然不会在意此等“小节”。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">在他们看来，畅快饮酒是人生乐事，如果不把酒杯斟满便说明二者交情不深，无论在职场上面对领导，还是在家中面对朋友都是十分忌讳的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">现在不比古代，此时的酒度数很高，饮酒过度真的会引发身体健康问题。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">每年因为饮酒而送命的酒鬼不知凡几，所以说，如果没有李白的一生落魄、杜甫的半生潦倒、刘伶的愁绪万千，还是小酌几杯，更加怡情。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong>-02-</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong>色不顾身</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">我们都知道“色字头上一把刀”，那你可知此刀落何处？具体表现如何？会产生怎样恶劣的影响？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>据科学研究表明，若是一个人成天沉溺在欲望中，会极其容易消耗掉身体内的精华，使得心火过重。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">所以我们到了一定年龄，就该考虑收心，淡化欲望了。金钱、权势、荣誉、美色固然吸引人，但也到了该放下的时候了。<br/></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>毕竟，雄心是主观的，而身体是否支撑得起是客观的。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">正如古人所说：“纵欲之乐，忧患随焉。”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">当我们的身体开始走下坡路。从养生保健作为出发点考虑的话，也该学会控制自己的欲望。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong>-03-</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong>财不顾亲</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">古今中外，相信没有多少人会抗拒财富的到来。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;">2001年，中国武汉大学与马来西亚大学站在了辩论台上，<strong>辩题是：金钱是否是万恶之源？</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">讨论得非常深入，其中就有一点提到金钱会让人的感情淡薄，增加与亲人之间的隔阂，利益的纠纷甚至会让家人走向对立面。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>古人留下“财不顾亲”的说法，当然不是让我们远离钱财，毕竟“君子爱财，取之有道”，连君子都可以爱财，我们普通人又为何不可？</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">主要在于如果出现和亲人朋友之间的利益纠纷，该如何去面对？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">举个简单的例子，假如一位与你有血缘关系的亲人，向你借了一笔钱财，时光悠悠，多年过去之后，这位亲人仍然没有归还的迹象。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">催，肯定是要催一催的，但若对方以亲人的名义请求暂缓一些时日，但是你知道这个“时日”遥遥无期，那么你会与对方翻脸吗？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">如果说前面两点“酒不顾人、色不顾身”，还可以通过严于律己，将其变成可解的命题，那么第三点“财不顾人”中出现的某些情景，却真的让人难以解答，这或许就是老祖宗所描绘的世态炎凉吧。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">法国浪漫主义诗人维尼说过这样一句话：“平凡的人听从命运，只有强者才是自己的主宰”。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><strong>不管是“酒不顾人”，还是“色不顾身”，又或者是“财不顾亲”，与其受他人、他物摆布，不如自己决定一切，不能喝的酒坚决说不，不该想的东西坚决不想。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 1px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">至于最后的钱财往来，毕竟是亲人，笔者认为能帮则帮，若对方实在品行恶劣，哪怕有血缘关系，也要坚定拒绝。</span></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: auto;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: auto;letter-spacing: 0.578px;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 23.2727px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="padding: 5px;border-width: 30px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 129, 36);-webkit-border-image: url(https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/ziadDDQxbCJH5XgRaVALrjH9nwVRKrpfAdOdxPFFLLKEH5pJibI5jHaAcXevKSbG1JmRIMcjD2ficeIy5ZpI9FstQ/640?wx_fmt=png) 42 fill;"><p style="line-height: 25.6px;"><br/></p></section></section><p></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0em; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"><br/></p><p style="display: none;"><mp-style-type data-value="3"></mp-style-type></p><p style="color:#999;font-size:.8em;margin-top:1em">转载声明：本文转载自微信公众平台 《https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/3sG47WEjnKr5H14_V12JyA》</p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//mas360.cc/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_ssT" id="wcn_editor_css"/> 呵呵，这道理还不简单？酒喝多了误事，色迷心窍伤身，钱财面前亲人也可能反目😒。自己的身体自己顾，钱财的事自己看着办。 这话说得挺在理😒。酒喝多了伤身体，色字头上一把刀，财也容易让人六亲不认。就像维尼说的，咱得自己主宰命运，该拒绝就拒绝🤷♂️。 这种说法其实挺有意思的，能从不同角度看透人性。酒、色、财，都是人们生活中不能割舍的东西，但它们往往带来的不是快乐，而是烦恼。喝酒时常醉得失去理智，迷恋美色则可能丢掉自我，而追逐钱财往往让人与人之间的关系变得冷淡。人总是容易忘记这些东西的两面性，追求的过程中却忽视了自己内心的真正需求。最终，受苦的还是自己。🙄 这段话透出了人情世故的复杂。酒、色、财，都是人性的一面镜子，反映出我们在这世俗之中怎样游走。在酒桌上，大家都喜欢借酒消愁，但喝尽兴头，往往反而伤了身心。色欲则是另一种引诱，欲望的追求可以让人迷失自我，损害健康和内心的平静。至于财，虽然人人都渴求，但钱财往来，尤其是亲人之间，往往会让感情变得微妙。我们可以追求财富，但却不能让它影响到最亲近的人。认识到这些，是成熟的一部分。人情世俗，终究是个平衡的艺术。💸 人情冷暖这事，真是个复杂的话题。酒、色、财，听起来挺简单，其实背后都有不少故事。酒不顾人，大家都知道，喝多了可不管你身边的人是啥感受，冲动和醉态下的决策常常反噬。而色，有时候让人迷失，欲望一旦放纵，轻则影响健康，重则可能毁了生活。至于财，不少亲戚朋友间的关系都被金钱搞得不少麻烦，这世上，钱和感情的关系，永远是个大难题。人活着，得有点自己的主见，别让这些外物左右了自己。🙄 这段话真是讲得透彻，把人情世故道理剖析得很到位。酒、色、财的问题，各有不同的深意，反映的是一些根深蒂固的本质。“酒不顾人”说的是人在饮酒时容易迷失自己，酒桌上的豪情往往让人忽略了身边人的感受，喝得尽兴却常常后悔。其实，这就像生活的掉头戏，醉意上来，一切都不在乎了。🙄
“色不顾身”提醒我们欲望的洪流下，身体和心灵的平衡很重要。沉迷其中会消耗身心，反而得不偿失。人生不是只有享乐，重要的是知道什么时候该停。
“财不顾亲”就是那种为了钱财可能失去亲情的悲哀现实。利益面前，亲情往往显得脆弱。能不能在金钱与情感间找到平衡，这才是智慧所在。总的来说，控制欲望，珍惜人情，才能活得更踏实。 这段话深刻地揭示了人生中的一些无奈和复杂。酒、色、财，这三者似乎都是人们的追求，但在追求的过程中，往往忘记了身边最重要的人和事。酒喝多了可能让人迷失，欲望无边会让身体受损，而金钱则常常成为人际关系的破坏者。
看似简单的道理，却是无数人都在体验的现实。我们常常为了追求这些物质而忽略了身边的人，最后发现人情比纸更薄，这并非无情，而是世事无常的真实写照。其实，做到适度、节制，才是活得通透的智慧。🧐 酒、色、财，这三样东西在生活中都扮演着重要而复杂的角色。酒助兴，但也可能带来误事；色，引发欲望，却让人失去理智；财，虽然是生活的基础，却能割裂亲情。这些道理其实并不难理解，哪怕古人在说时语气严肃，现在听来仍然很有警醒意味。
酒，不是人人都能控制的；色，也不是可以随意放纵的。至于财，虽然大家都想拥有，但一旦涉及利益，就容易生出嫌隙。这些都是值得深思的。想要保持良好的人际关系与自我约束，需要的不只是智慧，更多的是一种态度。生活不易，学会掌控自己的欲望与选择，才是正道。 😊
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