善待自己，从不生气开始
<section style="text-align: center; line-height: normal; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px;"><br/></section><p></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px 8px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: normal; visibility: visible;"></section><p></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 15px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;">作者：云谷禅师<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;visibility: visible;">来源：日行一善共修平台<span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;">（ID:</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;">RXYSGXPT</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;">）</span></span></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 楷体, 楷体_GB2312, SimKai;font-size: 14px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"></span></p><p></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin-top: 24px;"><section data-lazy-bgimg="https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-fail="0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 2.5em;height: 3em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 1em;line-height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px center;visibility: visible;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">1</strong></span></p></section></section><h2 style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">少生气，修一颗静心</strong></span></h2><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></section><h2 style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">佛曰：</strong><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;">我自无心于万物，何妨万物常围绕。</strong></span></h2><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="91525" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);visibility: visible;">有位学僧请教禅师：“我脾气暴躁、气短心急，以前参禅时也总被师父提点，我知道身为出家人，不应如此，可这毕竟是我天生的毛病，既已成了习性，就再难控制了！<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;"/>请问禅师，您有什么办法帮我改正这个缺点吗？”</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">禅师认真地答道：“好！你把你心急的习气拿出来，我肯定能帮你改正！”<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">学僧听后不禁一笑，说：“我没事情，又不心急，只有遇到事情的时候它才会跑出来。”</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">禅师微微一笑，说：“你看，心急也不是时刻都在的，这怎么能是习性呢？更别提是天性了。<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/>心急本来是没有的，因你有事，遇困才发生，你无法控制自己，却把责任推到了天性上。你的父母给你的，除了佛心，再无其他！”</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">学僧惭愧而退。<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">人生来去一场空，活了一辈子，却用生气折磨自己，才是最大的罪过。</span></strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">气大伤身，气来伤心，话多伤人。</span></strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">计较越多，越伤情。人啊，除了生死，其余都是小事。与其一辈子斤斤计较，倒不如想开些，看远些，糊涂些，活得痛快些！</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">生气，是拿别人的错误惩罚自己。人生不如意事常有之</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">，</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">既然躲不过，何不装糊涂。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">身体是自己的，别为不值得的人生气。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">大事小事，都是往事。</span></strong><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">看开琐事，放下心事，每一天都是一个新的开始。</span></strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"></span></strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p></section></section></section></section></section><section xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;"><section data-lazy-bgimg="https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-fail="0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 2.5em;height: 3em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 1em;line-height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px center;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">2</strong></span></p></section></section><h2 style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">做人须有雅量，宽和方能成事</strong></span></h2><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">诗曰：</span></strong><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">心如大海无边际，广植净莲养身心；自有一双无争手，为作世间慈悲人。</span></strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">东汉时期，有个名叫甄宇的官吏，为人厚道，素有口碑。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">一日，皇上得到一群外藩进贡的活羊，便赐给了在朝官吏。分配这羊时，却犯了难：这群羊大小不一，肥瘦不均，分不好，怕是群臣会有意见。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">于是，有人提议把羊杀掉，然后肥瘦搭配，人均一份；有人提议直接抓阄......正当大家争论不休时，甄宇站出来说：“分只羊不是很简单吗？<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/>依我看，大家随便牵一只羊走不就可以了吗？”说完，他就牵了一只最瘦小的羊离开了。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">看着甄宇牵走了小羊，其他大臣也纷纷挑最小的羊离开。很快，羊就分光了，每个人都没有怨言。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">当光武帝听闻此事，大赞甄宇，他也因此得了个“瘦羊博士”的美誉。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">不久，在群臣的推举下，甄宇又被朝廷提拔为太学博士院院长。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">都以为甄宇牵走小羊是吃了亏，却不想他因此得到了群臣支持，皇上器重。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">做人有雅量，宽和能成事。</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">肯吃亏的人，往往吃不了亏；</strong><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">太较真的人，总会伤太深。</strong></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">心宽似海，生活才能风平浪静。人非圣贤，孰能无过。学会宽恕，也是放过自己。宽恕之人，常怀慈悲之心，对人好，也是对自己好。<br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">生活琐事无数，心态平和，以宽容和谅解来沟通，再多事也不会成为烦恼。大度之人，愉悦了自己，保护了别人。</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">做人，计较太多，伤的是自己</strong>，<strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">宽容别人，才是放过自己。</strong></span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></section><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"></span></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></section><section xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;"><section data-lazy-bgimg="https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-fail="0" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;outline: 0px;width: 2.5em;height: 3em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 1em;line-height: 3em;display: inline-block;background-image: url(https://mas360.cc/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/ECnfJjOlrUic1ee2vyy1lh8hhmEEAQtEBbJOH3K5BPwbnDia11ficgCVN98hB3Kic3aqxyp8WOPaia9DgXHJ30Dl4jg/640?wx_fmt=gif);background-repeat: no-repeat;background-size: 100%;background-position: 0px center;"><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">3</strong></span></p></section></section><h2 style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;text-align: center;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"><strong style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;">凡事让三分，做人多包容</strong></span></h2></section><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></section><p></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft 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transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">一位高僧受当地一位富商邀请赴宴，可精致的素菜间，却有一盘菜里竟然有一块肉，就摆在高僧的面前。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">高僧的徒弟心想：明知我们不能吃荤的，却偏在菜里放这么一大块肉！一定要让主人看看！于是，他故意用筷子把肉翻出来，高僧却立刻将肉掩盖在菜中。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">不一会儿，徒弟又翻出来肉，高僧再度遮住，并在徒弟的耳畔轻声说：“你再把肉翻出来，我就把它吃掉！”徒弟听后再不敢声张。</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">宴席终了，高僧辞别富商归寺。路上，徒弟疑惑道：“师父，那块肉应该让富商知道才对，处罚他一下才好！您为什么要阻拦我呢？”</span></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;">高僧说：“人都会犯错，也许是有心，也许是无心。不论怎么说，如果刚才让富商看到这块肉，将此事迁怒于厨师，让他受惩非我所愿。希千百事之荣，不如免一事之丑。”</span><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;"></span></p><p></p><section style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-bottom: 0px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: normal;"><br style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;outline: 0px;"/></section><p></p><p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent;margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, 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