关键时刻，男人不傻

--大少

古语说：知己知彼，百战不殆。其实，在女人和男人的这场战争中，女人并非追求“胜利”。男人和女人是对手亦是朋友，少了谁，另一方也许都会因寂寞而死。所以，了解和理解皆是为了更加平等对话、互惠互利。 　　婚前，男人口口声声地对女人说：真希望你永远这样纯情似水下去！然而，婚后倘若女人果然为取悦他而硬撑着扮作小龙女般不食人间烟火不谙世事的模样，结果却只能是费力不讨好——你真是个幼稚的女人！他定会气极败坏地喊。其实女人正确的做法应该是：摇身一变，由藤变成树，成熟有主见，里里外外一把手，处事练达。他担心的邻里、婆媳等等关系全不在话下。于是，他渐渐地对你刮目相看，到那时，太平盛世里你拈花微笑偶一为之的“纯情”——换来的才是他一世的怜惜！男人并不否认自己喜欢温柔和气勤劳俭朴型的女人。可是女人如果信了这话并努力照此严格要求自己一心一意待他，却未必赚出“好”来。像那上上下下人人服气的宝姐姐，可以说具备传统意义上好女人的全部特质：温顺、端庄、宽容，以大局为重……好是好，只是太完美太正襟危坐太四平八稳了些，少了一分灵气、活力和梦想，宝玉终究不买她的账。
　　好女人不学坏，却有必要心思灵巧一些。比如有一点晴雯的刁蛮，不事事顺着他、犯了错决不姑息迁就……就这样欲擒故纵着。让他永远扑腾在女人溢满爱的手掌心里！
　　几乎所有男人潜意识里都想念妖精一样的女人。那种女人有着可爱的邪气和浪漫的天性。比如遥远的梦露之于天下男人心。如果女人与妖精们较真、吃醋令自己不开心，实在自寻烦恼。那只是男人们藏于现实背后的一个梦而已，真正要恩赐一个“梦露”给他，他一定又连连摆手，那样的女人怎么能胜任老婆一职呢？呵呵，男人于关键时刻一点都不傻啊。   
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